Domestic violence in a Relationship.

  • Healthy relationship involve trust, God-factor, respect, and considerations for other person and many more but an abusive relationship doesn’t have these qualities.

you are being abused in a relationship, it’s normal to feel confused, afraid and angry and even consider your partner’s behaviour is as a result of some influence such as drugs, alcohol, stress, anger but my dear,It’s a CHOICE. rather its mistreatment, intense,jealousy, disrespect, controlling behaviour, and violence. A good partner takes care to respect his or her beloved but doing something out of love is not the same as doing something out of fear.

  • Choosing to stay in an abusive relationship is like accepting to die gradually. Forget all the talks about praying for an abusive partner to change. You can’t change an unwilling partner. Forget all the dramas that follows after the beating by doing something nice, buying a gigantic gift, apologizing and promising it won’t happen again. No one should be gullible not to know right from wrong.

Don’t stay in any abusive or violent relationship because God hates divorce and that’s more reason why God factor shouldn’t be left out at the scratch Of The relationship. Does God love people being killed all the time at the hands of people who claim to love them? God gave us brains for a reason, we should use our head. It is better to keep your life than die fighting to keep a violent partner. You won’t get a crown for being killed.

  • If you are in an abusive relationship, it’s okay to retrace your steps back and stop limiting yourself to what others will think,they are not being beaten with you,sex,age,friends and families,your virginity, money are not enough reasons to keep enduring such life. you have the power over your decision. USE IT. Choosing to stay eats away your self esteem, you tend to justify the pains from your think you caused it all and it’s not true, it simply means you’ve accepted to live in fear and that’s not the best way to live life.

This is for friends, If such person confides in you, they need you to listen and support without being a Judge or going about telling other friends…. That’s awful๐Ÿ™ƒ.it takes courage to admit being abused, don’t add more pains to their pains please.They need your encouragement or help from an older adult, a pastor and an health professional.Be that good friend.

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Taiwo Eniola

Hi I'm Eniola. A Nigerian. I'm studying agriculture @LAUTECH at the moment. I love music, writing, fashion ,reading and everything that makes me connect to life. I'm a Christian. A serious soul. Lively Introvert. I am one out of MANY....................

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February 27, 2019 6:31 am

Good one. Thanks for the courage to do this.
Always a delight reading from here.

February 27, 2019 7:23 am

Understanding that life is more precious than what people would say..thank you Kuye๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“

February 27, 2019 8:31 am

The lord is your strength dear, more wisdom

Adedolapo Ige
Adedolapo Ige
February 27, 2019 9:46 am

So true and real. It takes great courage to open up that one is being abused in a relationship and it takes determination and courage to walk out of the relationship. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Say no to abusive relationships.. God bless you dear..